"Remember too that we are fools for Christ’s sake, be careful of this. Sometimes after making great sacrifices, such as leaving a country, home and friends for Christ’s work we slip up on the small things, such as a small clash of wills, you won’t give in. e.g. To a person you can’t get on too well with. The height of stupidity and indeed a sad thing." Fr Jim Norris.
Here Fr Norris writes about the need for humility when building relationships with Jesus Christ and how force is a bad thing and damages friendships.